For women who want to know what they want, always, and to receive with ease
You’re a smart, savvy woman with big aspirations, but sometimes you have a ton of trouble getting crystal clear on what you truly want. And receiving with ease - especially things that feel "unearned", like gifts and rave reviews and offers of help - seems so damn hard! 
It’s not like you don’t have big dreams and loads of ambition. But someone asks ‘who is your ideal client?’ and you can’t get closer than vague generalisations. Or they want to offer generous help and your response is ‘oh, I’m fine thanks’. Or your sweetie asks what you want for dinner and you suggest burgers because you know that's what they love (and it always goes that way).

You hate feeling like you are ‘indecisive’ and ‘bad at receiving’, but these two superpowers of Venus - unapologetic desire and unearned receiving - seem to have passed you by.

And it’s not like you haven’t tried to solved this.

Maybe you’ve taken a practical approach, with lists of pros and cons. Or you’ve tried coaching or therapy, via thought work or affirmations. You’ve probably explored solutions like meditation and prayer, too, and you might even have found yourself letting astrology or tarot make the choices for you. Or maybe you've simply kept pushing on through and hoping for things to get clear and easy as if by magic, again and again and again. While some of these may have provided temporary relief, you’re still struggling and frustrated and probably - if we’re honest - feeling pretty pissed off.

The reason so many of those solutions have not been able to create solutions for you is that the underlying issue is not, and never was, a you-problem. You are not broken, none of this is your fault, and you do not have a character flaw that needs fixing. Almost everything you’ve experienced has been created in your brain, as a healthy and reasonable response to the UNhealthy and UNreasonable systems in which we all grew up: toxic capitalism, colonialism, and the patriarchy. 

This doesn’t make you the helpless victim. It gives you the power to focus on solving the right problem at last - disrupting and dismantling the toxic tangles left behind by those systems, once and for all.

Successfully healing this relationship with your true desires and your ability to receive with ease - like all my work - follows four simple principles:

  1. The system in which we were raised is fucked, and it has installed habits of sabotage in your head
  2. That's not your fault - but it is your responsibility (and your opportunity!) to clean up the mess (aka rewire your brain)
  3. Brains are superbly designed for rapid change, when you have the right tools pointed at the right problem
  4. Planetary magic adds a whole new dimension of ease and speed to the change process
You’re seeking to become the version of you who knows exactly what she wants and is wide open to receiving it. When you do that, you liberate yourself and create pathways to the fields of infinite possibility.

“It was eye opening to imagine receiving so matter of factly, and it gives me something to work towards! I was surprised at how resistant I was to seeing myself as worthy of reverence. It's very revealing, and so helpful to improve your relationship with desire & receiving”
Jamie
The Unleash Venus program is a self-directed course designed to massively amp up your abilities to know what you want and easily receive it, free from limiting beliefs and the patterns the patriarchy taught you. 

We do this with a particular focus on neuroscience and astrology, because blending these two powerful approaches creates such a cool, fun and effective way to maximise your growth and freedom.

Desire is the engine that drives us toward our right lives. 

It’s not some fluffy ‘oh, wouldn’t it be nice if….’ that we only get to experience once the kids are fed, the work is done, the dishes are put away.

We NEED unfiltered, unapologetic desire, to help us know who we are!  

And we need its corollary partner, receiving.  

They’re joined at the proverbial hip, because if we don’t trust in one, it’s well nigh impossible to trust the other.

Unleash Venus is a potent combination of expert teaching, planetary magic, hardcore neuroscience and somatic practices, designed for this very purpose.
“This program is really useful for any woman who has grown up in our patriarchal culture, to help unlearn or recondition ourselves to revealing our deepest desires and allowing receiving to occur. The slowing down part of the exercises was very helpful, and I have appreciated this practice.”
Stephanie Benson
What to expect
  • The old pain of struggling to express what you truly want loosens its grip, creating a new level of freedom to want exactly what you want
  • Other people’s needs become better balanced with your own, so you no longer find yourself 'accidentally' suppressing your own needs yet again 
  • Old habits of awkwardness or guilt around receiving begin to dissolve, so you can access grace and delight around gifts, compliments, donations, bonuses, miracles
  • The secret fear that knowing what you want will turn you into an a-hole diminishes, so you can finally embrace the truth of your desires without shame
  • Previous guilt you may have felt about failing to master clarity of desire or ease of receiving is gone, freeing up energy for you to use as you please
  • You get to trust that you can know what you truly want, in any situation; and you get to receive abundantly, with grace and ease and no more feelings of obligation or awkwardness

This course is very different from all the other self-help stuff out there, because it responds to the way the system is rigged. Research shows that little girls are trained from a very early age to ignore their own needs while noticing and prioritising the needs of others, where little boys are taught to notice their own needs and figure out how to have them met. Little girls also learn early that certain desires are inappropriate, shameful or dangerous. Most self help books and productivity programs approach these issues as if they are a personal flaw that needs fixing - so NOW you’re also dealing with a low hum of shame or guilt for being ‘broken’ or ‘wrong’ because you don’t know what you want or you’re ‘bad at receiving’. My approach works because I directly address the systemic BS that got planted in your head AND I hook you up with powerful desire-and-receiving maven Venus, in all her post-patriarchy glory.

Doing this work of dismantling ancient systemic BS in one’s own head can seem a bit daunting. How will I know what to do? What if it doesn’t work for me? Play, delight and radical self-compassion are always built into the practices I design, because that hugely supports the rewiring of your brain. And you'll have options for choosing your practices based on your energy levels and the current state of your animal body. I create safety by walking you through this work in a beautiful absence of rush.

Why do I weave in working with a planetary ally? Because post-patriarchy Venus is a very different character from the clingy, man-pleasing, demure goddess depicted by Botticelli. She is THE goddess of knowing what you want, and receiving with zero obligation to reciprocate (and yes, there's a reason that dynamic makes us feel awkward! Women with that much clarity are usually condemned as gold diggers or divas). You are a person of good heart, and there is no risk this program will turn you into a selfish a-hole. And Venus is the perfect metaphor for this. I think you’re going to love her!

I have no doubt that if you do the practices for at least 28 days out of the 6 weeks this course takes, you will experience both revelations and actual change. 

And if you do that work and don’t experience changes, I’ll give you a full refund. 

That’s how much I trust this work.

LogisticsHere's everything you need to know about the logistics, timing, commitment and cost.

  • Course will be available late 2024
  • Course is designed to be done over a six week period, but you can take as long as you need
  • Each week you will get a new lesson of 20-30 minutes, via speed adjustable video and transcript
  • You'll be invited to do 'homework' - usually a daily practice designed to take 5-10 minutes per day (ie less than 1% of your day)
  • VIP option ONLY: you also get a single 1:1 session with me, where we will turbo-charge your experience by exploring your own personal Venus: how she likes to operate, which other planets lend her their power, how her own signs (Taurus and Libra) have significance for you personally, and what current astrological 'weather' might be affecting her

Financial Investment This product is not yet available for sale, but once it is the pricing will be:

Standard Option: $97 USD - includes the full course for you to keep, including various bonus resources.

VIP Option: $197 USD - includes everything in the standard option, plus one 60-minute 1:1 session with me, where we'll explore your own personal Venus via your astrological chart (actual value $297).

Payment is via the Stripe payment platform, and fully secure.

I'm your host, Janette Dalgliesh

As a regenerative transformation coach and a student of human culture, brain science and planetary magic, I know how to help women who want to experience the indescribable joy of living authentically as their true Self.


This short but profoundly useful program, on how to recruit the powers of Venus and your own brain, arose out of conversations with so many different women. I am deeply delighted to be bringing it to you as a standalone self-study course.

If you'd like to know more about me, feel free to head on over to my website for more information.
“I had a significant change of attitude towards desire - it’s allowed me to start thinking about things I want in a new way; the unfolding of desire in a way that’s empowering and not limiting.” 
Bonnie
Your soul’s purpose, minus the toxic crapola installed in you by multiple systems of oppression, equals deep resonant joy. Time for you to claim it.
I acknowledge the Wadawurrung people of the Kulin nation as the Traditional Owners of the places where I live and work, and I pay respects to their Elders, past and present, to all Indigenous members of my local community, and to the First Nations peoples of the world.

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